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Worry for her safety
Monday. 11.6.06 9:39 pm
My sister is trying to leave her husband but he seems very dangerous and violent. I worry for her safety right now.



She should leave and not look back. Don't tell him where or when or how she's going. Have a family member show up in the middle of the night, if needed.
» ikimashokie on 2006-11-06 09:45:11

Ck into local Woman Abuse Shelters
They can advise on how to help protect her. Will she be staying with you or other Famiy Member? As soon as she leaves the SOB, have her get a restraining order against him ASAP, but use someone elses address for the form info. Please keep us posted. I'll keep her in my Prayers!
» JMC on 2006-11-06 09:50:14

Yeah that's a good way, but can also cause problems, especially if kids are involved. Also if she just ups and leaves they are still married which can also cause more problems. She needs to leave, make an excuse like a vacation visit to her mom or something. Start working on a quick divorce and a restraining order. Make sure she is making it clear she is afraid for her life.
» Katrina on 2006-11-06 09:52:09

I agree with JMC...a woman's abuse shelter would be a good place to start. You should also contact the police and ask for their assistance...if he's being violent and abusive, there is no reason why the police SHOULD NOT be involved...

I hope your sister is okay and I will keep her in my thoughts.
» lazypuppy on 2006-11-06 09:53:21

And do it soon. If he knows she's trying to lave and he doesn't want to let her go--well, he may become desperate.
» Silver-dot- on 2006-11-06 10:01:43

that's so sad... kinda hard to watch stuff like that happen... you wanna help but cant do much cuz of the volatile situations.. .on a happier note, about ur comment on my page, LOL, stalker-ish.. :)
» marymary on 2006-11-06 11:32:51

She has not been abused yet
She has not been physically abused yet but he has been drinking and yelling and cursing. He has made verbal threats. He went to the police today to file a report but they cant do anything because he has not done anything yet.
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 12:02:46

Kkama, tell her to tell the police that she doesn't care, that almost every time you hear of a woman dying in the news, she'd gone to the police days in advance to get an order against him, and the police didn't do anything.

Days/months/weeks later, she's dead. Besides, last I knew, making threats wasn't legal.
» ikimashokie on 2006-11-07 12:07:24

Iki, i didnt know that threats were illegal??
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 12:08:06

She can still leave. Take her things and go. Don't tell where and if he keeps asking her whereabouts, then go for harassment and a restraining order.
» Silver-dot- on 2006-11-07 12:09:39

She has kids
She has two kids and they are in school. They have a house and a mortgage with joint accounts. I think she is frantically trying to find a way out right now and I talk to her everyday. I dont think they can put a restraining order on him if they live together right?
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 12:11:34

she would have to leave...and then do the restraining order. I don't know if she can take the kids though...he could slap her with kidnapping and whatnot.
» lazypuppy on 2006-11-07 12:19:44

Holy Crap
It only gets worse!!
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 12:31:09

Don't Worry kkama67 She can legally take the kids
Just she can not take the kids out of state. Have her and the kids go before he gets physical, heck why wait for the physical scars when there is already mental scars for her and the kids.
» JMC on 2006-11-07 01:03:27

You are right. I will let her know tomorrow when she calls me to just get OUT!
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 01:24:18

So did you put the guava juice instead of water? I'd like to try some flavoring when I eventually make them.
» ikimashokie on 2006-11-07 03:21:57

Alright, that's what I was thinking. I can't wait to start.
» ikimashokie on 2006-11-07 11:01:06

eeeek TT_TT she should leave him as soon as she can >_=you know which sign goes here ^^;;=

arrrg such a dangerous situation TT_TT wishing you luck, i will pray for you =]


» Kuri on 2006-11-07 04:14:19

Talked to her today..
I talked to her today and he is acting really strangely. He just stands there and glares at her. Last night she slept in a different room. She called our dad and he told her that she and her kids can stay there with him. She is trying to sell all of her stuff except for the clothes that can fit in suitcases. I dont know how soon she can do this.

Today she is off from work to run errands, find out about jobs on Oahu and so forth, but that psycho took a day off too. What a stalker!!!
» kkama67 on 2006-11-07 04:28:32

It's kind of.... I dunno it's just kind of a romantic graveyard.
» randomjunk on 2006-11-07 05:25:19

I'm in my 3rd trimester...just started though :)

Almost done! It's to the point I just want to be done and over with it and with the baby...I'm tired of carrying him around.
» lazypuppy on 2006-11-07 07:25:53

i never read this one...im sorry to hear that. i send her all the good karma in the world.
» invisibleinkling on 2006-11-08 08:21:40

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